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Positive terms, gay people, and aliens

=== Positive terms, gay people, and aliens ===

“But my 5 year old son is not gay!” a parent could say. There are two things wrong with this statement.

First, children are asexual. They do not have sexual attractions. The gay gene only expresses itself during hormonal changes. This occurs during puberty.

Second, the parent is imposing his own assumption on the sexual orientation of his son. His son if gay will therefore have to hide his sexuality when he realizes it. He will feel shameful and despised. He will not dare to reveal his sexual orientation. He will marry the opposite sex to satisfy his parents’ wishes. It will be an unhappy marriage as he does not love his wife. He will feel deprived of his same sex satisfaction. He will feel jealous of gay couples. He will become a homophobe. He will use derogatory terms on gay people. If he divorces his wife, his wife may feel cheated. If he has a son, he will continue the legacy of homophobia. The older generation thus passes down homophobia to the younger generation. The young people become old. They too cannot change.

Love is a strange thing. People have different sexual affinities. Some love fat people. Some love thin people. Some love tall people. Some love short people. Even if you ask them to change their sexual affinities, do you think they can change? Similarly, some love the same sex. Some love the different sex. Some love the same race. Some love the different race. Do you think they can change? Why should you force people to love something that they do not love? Why should you force people to hate something that they do not hate?

Stop using the derogatory terms. These terms promote hate, intolerance, and discrimination. Granted, people who are not the minority group do not feel shame and think there is nothing wrong with such terms.

 

Aliens

I love movies denigrating aliens. Independence Day: Resurgence (2016 literally on this day) is a great movie. It is a break from the movies that denigrate a particular race or minority group. Some say aliens are not biblical so we shouldn’t watch them. But hey, dinosaurs are not biblical too. We still watch movies about dinosaurs. Don’t think that just because it wasn’t mentioned in the bible, it is not true. (Remember the time when Galileo said the Earth went round the sun?) Some people focus their energy on attacking a minority group such as gay people. Did you know that gay people are real? They are real human beings. Yes. They exist. About 10 percent of the world’s population are gay. They are a minority group. Did you know that humans don’t like to be insulted or attacked? That is why I like movies denigrating aliens. They provide a safe imaginary punching bag. Until such time when we discover otherwise. Then Hollywood may have to revise its policy. I believe that all sentient beings deserve to be loved and respected. All sentient beings deserve to be saved by the grace of God.

Wrecking Boat - Positive terms, gay people, and aliens
Wrecking Boat – Positive terms, gay people, and aliens

Positive Terms

Start using positive terms: rainbow people, people with non-standard sexual affinities, gay people, happy people, cheerful people, people like us, people born this way, LGBTQIA people etc.

Pray. Pray for wisdom and understanding. Don’t just read the books of your religion. Religious texts can preach intolerance and discrimination. Pray for accepting, affirming, and welcoming love.

=== Positive terms, gay people, and aliens ===

Ethical Christianity, mistakes, and rising again

Let’s talk about Ethical Christianity.

Is it a mistake to have been born a Jew?

If we were living in 1942 in East Europe and West Asia, it certainly would seem that way.

Is it a mistake to have been born a gay?

If we were living in 2016 in certain parts of the world (or 1942 Eastern European and Western Asian countries controlled by Nazi Germany), it certainly would seem that way.

Is it a mistake to have been born a spastic? In most parts of the world, in 1942 or 2016, it certainly would seem that way.

Does God make no mistakes, as Lady Gaga says?

It is hard to believe, some say.

I believe that God makes no mistakes. The racists, homophobes, and bigots are wrong.

I am what I am.

“If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first.”

‭‭John‬ ‭15:18‬ ‭NIV‬‬

http://bible.com/111/jhn.15.18.niv

I will not cease to do what is right.

Ethical Christianity

My religion is Ethical Christianity. For me, it is not enough just to be a Christian. One has to think about good things. One has to speak about good things. One has to do good things.

What is a Christian? Someone who says so? A cruel dictator claimed to be a Christian. He murdered innocent Jews, gays, and disabled people. He is not an Ethical Christian. He did not practise Ethical Christianity.

I will not digress into specifying who will go to heaven and who will go to hell. That is inconsequential for most of us.

If somebody’s religion says that Group X of people are going to hell, there will likely be hate crimes committed against Group X.

What horror awaits you if you happen to be born as Group X, according to your genetic code.

We can change.

The feel good factor of condemning the “other” to be cursed or go to hell can only last so long. Most people will be troubled by their conscience. They should not be cursing or condemning people to hell so easily.

However, power struggles are a different ball game. When an evil person wishes to gain power, he can create fear by openly condemning a vulnerable group of people. This group should not be able to defend itself. The evil person can write history and propaganda cursing and condemning a particular race, sexual orientation group, physically or mentally challenged people.

People start to assume that what they find disgusting, God also finds disgusting. For example, people may find disabled people disgusting. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying that disabled people are disgusting. Without ethics, people are likely to shun or despise inferior people. That’s life. The strong bully the weak. Some do it subconsciously. Some do it without any qualms. There is a psychological basis for this. Have you ever seen an android or a life sized doll? You fear it because it looks so human-like and yet it is not human.

The brain has trouble pigeonholing. It fears the unknown. Fear leads to hate.

Brothers and sisters, this should not be so. Let us love one another, as God has loved us.

Quick Survey: Do you think that you become gay if you do not marry? Do you think that gays also deserve to be saved? Write me your comments in the section below!

Hint: Some reading material here:
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/8577926.html
https://landing.google.com/intl/en/pride/

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A song about rising again:

YouTube: Zootopia Try Everything (youtube.com/watch?v=QoXPVSSHzs8)

Shakira – Try Everything 全力以赴

Oh oh oh oh oooh [x4]

I messed up tonight, I lost another fight/ 我搞砸一切 又再次落败
I still mess up but I’ll just start again/ 陷入困境 但我将重新开始
I keep falling down, I keep on hitting the ground/ 总是失败 一次次跌倒
I always get up now to see what’s next/ 我会重新站起 面对全新的明天

Birds don’t just fly, they fall down and get up/ 鸟儿在翱翔前 曾经无数跌落天际和重新展翅
Nobody learns without getting it wrong/ 不经失败怎么会懂成功的甜美

I won’t give up, no I won’t give in/ 绝不放弃 绝不放手
Til I reach the end and then I’ll start again/ 直到终点 再重新启程
No I won’t leave, I wanna try everything/ 不轻言放弃 全力以赴
I wanna try even though I could fail/ 就算可能失败 也要竭尽全力
I won’t give up, no I won’t give in/ 绝不放弃 绝不放手
Til I reach the end and then I’ll start again/ 直到终点 再重新启程
No I won’t leave, I wanna try everything/ 不轻言放弃 全力以赴
I wanna try even though I could fail/ 就算可能失败 也要竭尽全力

Oh oh oh oh oooh Try everything/ 喔喔喔 尝试一切
Oh oh oh oh oooh Try everything/ 喔喔喔 竭尽全力
Oh oh oh oh oooh Try everything/ 喔喔喔 全力以赴

Look at how far you’ve come, you filled your heart with love/ 回头看看你走过的路 你的心充满了爱
Baby you’ve done enough that cut your breath/ 你已经做得很好了
Don’t beat yourself up, don’t need to run so fast/ 别再自责 有些路是急不得的
Sometimes we come last, but we did our best/ 有时我们没有超越其他人 却突破了自己

I won’t give up, no I won’t give in/ 绝不放弃 绝不放手
Til I reach the end and then I’ll start again/ 直到终点 再重新启程
No I won’t leave, I wanna try everything/ 不轻言放弃 全力以赴
I wanna try even though I could fail/ 就算可能失败 也要竭尽全力
I won’t give up, no I won’t give in/ 绝不放弃 绝不放手
Til I reach the end and then I’ll start again/ 直到终点 再重新启程
No I won’t leave, I wanna try everything/ 不轻言放弃 全力以赴
I wanna try even though I could fail/ 就算可能失败 也要竭尽全力

I’ll keep on making those new mistakes/ 不断犯下新的错误
I’ll keep on making them every day/ 每天每天继续犯下
Those new mistakes/ 那些新的错误

Oh oh oh oh oooh Try everything/ 喔喔喔 尝试一切
Oh oh oh oh oooh Try everything/ 喔喔喔 竭尽全力
Oh oh oh oh oooh Try everything/ 喔喔喔 全力以赴

Ethical Christianity - Rising Again
Ethical Christianity – Rising Again

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A song about acceptance, affirmation, and welcoming love:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uj8C43r4zm0
Gloria Gaynor – I am What I am
This was the song of the 2012 Paralympics opening ceremony in Great Britain.

Thinking out of the box – Affinity gradients

Genetics and the Yin-Yang theory

In Chinese philosophy, the must be a balance between female and male essences. Yin refers to the female essence. Yang refers to the male essence.

If a woman with a high XY-affinity marries a man with a high XX-affinity, we have a fairy tale love story. The children are likely to have standard sexual orientations.

The affinity gradients could be skewed, giving rise to non-standard sexual orientations. Let us see how this is so.

For example, the woman may have high XY-affinity and the man may have low XX-affinity. It becomes plausible that children would have high XY-affinity. Boys would then be born gay.

As for the dual example, the woman may have low XY-affinity and the man may have high XX-affinity. It becomes plausible that children would have high XX-affinity. Girls would then be born lesbian.

If a lesbian’s egg and a gay’s sperm collide, will we be able to obtain children with standard sexual orientations?

Mathematical Love Function 3D Graph Animation
youtube.com/watch?v=HekCZ6YvY0o

We are not sure if a human’s affinity gradient enjoys safe harbor locked to the XX and XY chromosomes.

I can imagine a modern-day Hitler performing such an experiment. Hitler loved to experiment on humans.

In cultures that persecute or even stigmatize non-standard sexual orientations, humans may be forced to conform to societal norms. Humans may exhibit sexual orientation plasticity. It takes Godly strength to maintain this unstable equilibrium. Respite is offered to the husband by escapades with a young boyfriend.

An (un)happily married friend commented, being an LGBTQIA person has no good consequences. We admit that this is true. We propose that the reason is due to society’s persecution rather than the nature of the person themselves.

The first Christians in ancient times were Jewish. God in His mercy revealed to Saint Peter that salvation did not belong solely to the Jews. Salvation also belongs to the Gentiles. Peter held the keys to the Kingdom of Heaven. He did not withhold it.

Today, the Ethical Christians are increasing in numbers. God in His mercy revealed that salvation did not belong solely to the non-LGBTQIA people. Salvation also belongs to the LGBTQIA people. Ethical Christians are Saints who hold the keys to the Kingdom of Heaven. Let us not withhold it.

3D Graph of Mathematical Love Function
3D Graph of Mathematical Love Function

Please leave your comments in the section below.

The Love Command

Jesus replied: “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’ ”
‭‭Matthew‬ ‭22:37-39‬ ‭NIV‬‬
http://bible.com/111/mat.22.37-39.niv

The Love Command: Make an intention to BE “love”, and see how your body instantly responds with the welling up of a warm, happy feeling. – Playing In Time And Space: The Miracle of Inspired Manifestations – Kindle edition by Richard Dotts.

Kelly Clarkson – Heartbeat Song
youtube.com/watch?v=d4_6N-k5VS4

Rainbow Heart of Love
Rainbow Heart of Love

http://www.cnn.com/2015/10/01/asia/china-gay-proposal/
Gay subway proposal an Internet hit in China

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/miley-cyrus-gay-rights-anthem_560ee48de4b0dd85030c0af3
Miley Cyrus Releases Gay Rights Anthem ‘Hands Of Love’

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-34428407
Pope Francis met gay couple at Vatican embassy in US

Lovely Songs Around The World

( 1 ) Vanessa Mae – I’m a Doun For Lack of Johnnie music video by circuitsage
( 2 ) 东方之珠 (滚石群星1991年TVB版) by zhjluster
( 3 ) PETULA CLARK-“COLOUR MY WORLD” (W/LYRICS) by rwells47
( 4 ) He Leadeth Me_Hymnal_MV by lifemodes
( 5 ) I Call You by Rita Springer.wmv by betvasquez
( 6 ) Give Thanks To The Lord – Hodu La’Adonai by LevyBlahut
( 7 ) Come Spirit of God – Bo Ruach Elohim – Adonai by imlivn4jesus
( 8 ) Shimcha Kadosh by wadowheels
( 9 ) Ma Navu (How Beautiful) by wadowheels
( 10 ) Baruch haba b’Shem Adonai (with lyrics) ברוך הבא בשם יהוה by aschat777
( 11 ) Ein Kamocha Elohim.wmv by ryantjie
( 12 ) Kumi Ori קומי אורי Arise and shine. Isaiah 60. by manalrium440mmk
( 13 ) El Gibor v’El Elyon – Lyrics and Translation by nikkyttmessianic PraiseandWorship
( 14 ) Enya – Echoes In Rain by enyatv
( 15 ) Enya – Only Time (Official Music Video) by Warner Bros. Records
( 16 ) Enya – May It Be by Marius Malmstrøm
( 17 ) Enya – We are free now by Namy90
( 18 ) 蔡依林 Jolin Tsai – 迷幻Fantasy(高畫質HD完整版MV) by 蔡依林官方專屬頻道 Jolin Tsai’s Official Channel
( 19 ) 蔡依林 Jolin Tsai – 大藝術家The Great Artist (華納official 高畫質HD官方完整版MV) by 蔡依林官方專屬頻道 Jolin Tsai’s Official Channel
( 20 ) 蔡依林 Jolin Tsai – Dr. Jolin(華納official 高畫質HD官方完整版MV) by 蔡依林官方專屬頻道 Jolin Tsai’s Official Channel
( 21 ) Madonna – Bedtime Story (Video) by Warner Bros. Records
( 22 ) Madonna – Ray Of Light by Warner Bros. Records
( 23 ) Beautiful Stranger~As Made Famous By Madonna by Sandy PichoneVille
( 24 ) Lady Gaga – Bad Romance by LadyGagaVEVO
( 25 ) Firework – Katy Perry lyrics by HopeLoveEarth
( 26 ) Stronger- Kelly Clarkson Lyrics by YayMoreZelda4Me
( 27 ) Oh The Blood / Ho Damo – Joshua Aaron – Lyrics by nikkyttmessianic PraiseandWorship
( 28 ) 一切都更新 (All Things New) – 約書亞樂團 by HosannaTheHighest ch
( 29 ) 一世人跟隨你 by washseacbcmember 古麟
( 30 ) 仰望/盛曉玫 by 陳思年
( 31 ) 腳步-盛曉玫-泥土音樂 by Ginlin Liao
( 32 ) 盛曉玫-《好好的過》 by hi44775828
( 33 ) 盼望 Hope – 盛曉玫 by HosannaTheHighest ch

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蔡依林 Jolin Tsai – 不一樣又怎樣 We’re All Different, Yet The Same (華納official 高畫質HD官方完整版MV)
youtube.com/watch?v=C7hHofDW2ts

THE REAL CHINA – By President Xi Jinping

Understand the real China from the speech of China President, Mr. Xi Jinping, summarized here.

The Laozi, Confucius, and Mozi teachings still carry a profound impact on Chinese people’s way of life today, underpinning the unique value system in the Chinese outlook of the world, of society and of life itself.

For several thousand years before the industrial revolution, China had been leading the world in economic, technological and cultural development.

However, feudal rulers of the 18th and 19th centuries closed the door of China in boastful ignorance and China was since left behind in the trend of development.

As a result of incessant foreign invasions thereafter, China experienced great social turmoil and its people had to lead a life of extreme destitution.

China is committed to non-interference in other countries’ internal affairs, and China will not allow others to interfere in its own affairs.

The Chinese people then started exploring long and hard for a path that would suit China’s national conditions.

Deng Xiaoping, we have, acting in line with China’s national conditions and the trend of the times, explored and blazed a trail of development and established socialism with Chinese characteristics.

Our aim is to build a socialist market economy, democracy, an advanced culture, a harmonious society and a sound eco-system, uphold social equity and justice, promote all-round development of the people, pursue peaceful development, complete the building of a moderately prosperous society in all respects and eventually achieve modernization and ensure prosperity for all.

The uniqueness of China’s cultural tradition, history and circumstances determines that China needs to follow a development path that suits its own reality.

In China, over 74 million people rely on basic living allowances; each year, more than 10 million urban people would join the job market and several hundred million rural people need to be transferred to non-agricultural jobs and settle down in urban areas; more than 85 million people are with disabilities; and more than 200 million people are still living under the poverty line set by the World Bank, and that is roughly the population of France, Germany and the UK combined.

In the 40-day-long season of the last Chinese New Year, China’s airlines, railroads and highways transported 3.6 billion passengers, which means 90 million people were on the move each day.

To observe and understand China properly, one needs to bear in mind both China’s past and present and draw reference from both China’s accomplishments and the Chinese way of thinking.

The 5,000-year-long Chinese civilization, the 170-year struggle by the Chinese people since modern times, the 90-year-plus journey of the Conservationist Party of China, the 60-year-plus development of the People’s Republic and the 30-year-plus reform and opening-up should all be taken into account.

One can hardly understand China well without a proper understanding of China’s history, culture, the Chinese people’s way of thinking and the profound changes taking place in China today.

The Chinese people, over 2,000 year ago, had come to understand this from a simple fact that the tasty orange, grown in southern China, would turn sour once it is grown in the north.

Great Wall of China
Great Wall of China

Simplified Chinese Wikipedia

Everything should be made as simple as possible, if not simpler.

There should only be just Traditional Chinese and Simplified Chinese.

Wikipedia does not need Singapore Chinese, China Chinese, Chinese Taiwan Chinese, Hong Kong Chinese, Macau Chinese, Malaysia Chinese, and American Chinese.