L does not need to be understood.
L wants your understanding.
L is not against non-L.
L is perfectly fine with non-L going about their daily activities.
However, there is a subset of non-L people that are actively opposing the equal human rights of L.
These L-phobic people are what L is advocating against.
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. Let’s be clear about this.
My advice to L:
Despite the injustices that you are facing, please think straight and define the scope of your argument carefully.
Know that there exist non-L people that support your right to live a happy life.
L-phobic people come in two parts. One part has the knowledge that L are born this way. One part has knowledge that L are not born this way. These two parts are L-phobic nonetheless.
The L-phobic part 1 assumes that disabled people are not entitled to the same human rights.
The L-phobic part 2 assumes that L has chosen to be L. Therefore this sin excludes them from basic human rights.
L-phobic people carry out hate crimes against L-philic people, causing them to commit suicide. This fact is obvious to L-philic people but non-obvious to L-phobic people. L-phobic people expel L-philic family members from homes onto the streets, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. This fact is non-obvious to L-phobic Christian pastors but obvious to L-philic families. Please, let us love our family members.
Replace L with LGBTQIA.
Encouraging people to be more L-philic.